I have really enjoyed having Natalie here. She's been a blessing to our family in so many ways. We have hosted many young people in our home. Natasha from Russia for a month the summer of 2001. Sarah from Germany for the 2001/2002 school year. Hannie from Ghana for the 2003/2004 school year. Svenja from Switzerland for the 2004/2005 school year. Gina from the USA from Oct 2005 - Dec 2006. Eszter from Hungary for August to December 2007. Throw in a few shorter term foster kids and you have the picture of the revolving door that is our home.
All these experiences have offered high points and low. Most have been good experiences overall, but some girls have left indelible marks on our lives. When I leave Natalie at the TSA security check point at the airport today, I will feel as if I am leaving a part of my family. While experience tells me that she will remain a part of my family, regardless of where she lives, I will miss her daily presence in my life.
Natalie has been a great friend to Maddy. Embracing Maddy's quirks and moods, ignoring her messiness in their shared bathroom, they have become sisters. Natalie has been a great sparring partner for David. When he tries to incite an argument, and the rest of his pretend we can't be bated, she's eager to engage him. For me Natalie is a reliable, steady presence. She's always eager to talk, open with her feelings and willing to help.
I can put her on an airplane today, but I won't remove her from my heart or my family. I trust that she will return. Her role in the family will be different, but no less important. Today I will focus on how her parents, who haven't seen her for 10 months are feeling. I will celebrate for the people who have so graciously shared their daughter with my family.
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